Sunday 28 June 2015

Marriage Equality is the Natural Order of Things

The Supreme Court of the U.S. ruling on marriage equality has broken down another bastion of prejudice and bigotry. One of the most interesting aspects of it has been reading the opinions of the dissenting judges. Most of them appeared to be trying establish a position where society regressed to justify a reluctance to change the law. According to Justice Scalia the function of marriage was to facilitate procreation. And Clarence Thomas argued that denial of the right to marriage did not constitute a robbing of dignity and therefore a breach of human rights. It was interesting to see the Justices resorting to fallacious reasoning in explaining their dissent but barely able to contain their personal aversion to homosexuality itself. 

I strongly doubt there is any merit in the claim that marriage was principally designed for procreation. In early societies marriage was seen as a way of providing a companion and a work partner in securing a subsistence. So it was mainly a means of providing comfort and protection. Having children and building a family was just a natural consequence of that. Even in the American frontier men got married in order to have a companion and someone to cater to their domestic needs. It was widely known that the frontier prostitutes would take money to sleep with you but you couldn't pay them enough to come home with you and wash your undies. In the Bible Eve was created as a companion for Adam, so that he wouldn't be alone. And in the New Testament Apostle Paul endorses marriage for those unable to live a life of chastity and solitude. (Christianity's position on homosexuality is another matter but many churches are having to rethink their positions on that too).

Clarence Thomas' claim that the state cannot deny a person dignity seems confused at best. Is it not a State's duty to protect the freedom of all citizens. And would a denial of access to a freely available social institution not reduce a person's standing in society? To be stripped of your justly entitled rights is an affront to personal dignity. Justice Thomas will do well not to confuse pride with dignity. Dignity comes from elevation. You cannot be truly elevated if you are relegated to a lower status than others around you. 

As Michel de Montaigne wrote, "marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds outside desperate to get in, and those inside equally desperate to get out". However marriage turns out; the choice should be all people's to make. 

6 comments:

  1. Interesting thoughts. Its a great turning point for the U.S, and will definitely cause ripples in other societies.

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    1. It's been just over 50 years that interracial marriage was legalised in the U.S.. What was once unthinkable has since become integral to the American society.

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  2. Hiya Papi.....Oh dear God! It's been a while I got on this space. Papi, I dunno if you got my email buh I never got a response right...either way, I am thankful for everything. It meant a lot when I read from you.

    You know, when my mom-in-law called me to tell me that....I was shocked honestly. I have always been in support of LGBT bih mehnnnnnnnnnnn seeing it official kinda scared me.

    How are you Papi?

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    1. I'm doing fine over here, embracing the summer in all its suffocating grandness. I'm sorry but I didn't get your email. I'm glad you're doing great.

      As daunting as equality sounds past experiences suggest the world won't grind to a halt because one group of people have won a right to be treated fairly in one aspect of their lives. Fighting inequality and prejudice is the key to winning war with extremism.

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  3. Hmm...legalizing same sex marriage in any country doesn't make it right. The danger is, because it's now legalized some people will begin to feel it's right. Young, impressionable minds are in danger here. Why, legalizing smoking doesn't make it right for you, legalizing prostitution doesn't make it any less debasing than it is to human dignity. Legalizing anything that is all wrong doesn't make it right. It's just man's attempt to establish his own rules in order to soothe his conscience and tell himself everything is okay. Anything can be made legal and that doesn't make it right. If anyone is having issues with why he is male or female or is attracted to the same sex that he is, then he should talk to the creator because if God is what we conceive Him to be i.e. all knowing,sovereign e.t.c. then He doesn't make mistakes and he knows why you are male or female from birth. Man and woman's physiology were not created to 'pair' with the same sex, even animals don't do that. Come on!

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  4. I hope that heartfeltviews from above who has anything but heartfelt views has had a talk with God, because they are the ones that need it. Loving someone of the same sex doesn't hurt you or get in your way. Come On! There are also many same sex animals, homophobic idiot. I reduced myself to that tight a$$ level but oh well.

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